ADVOCATING FOR YOUR OWN DEATH BY ACKNOWLEDGING AND KNOWING ITS CERTAINTY, PLANNING FOR ITS INEVITABILITY, MAKING YOUR OWN INFORMED CHOICES, KNOWING AND BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR OURSELVES, THE PLANET IN OUR PLANNING.
DEATH IS A COMMUNITY EVENT.
IT IS ABOUT SHARING WISDOM AND LEAVING A LEGACY OF LOVE AND HEALING FOR OUR SURVIVORS & THE PLANET.
WHAT IF YOU KNEW ALL OF THE CHOICES AVAILABLE, HAD ALL OF YOUR AFFAIRS IN ORDER & HAD ALL OF THE CONVERSATIONS YOU NEED TO HAVE?
I’d love to invite you to learn more about working together individually or in community.
I promise you...
I will not try convince you to do it my way! WE create a plan together (with structure) to show you what choices are available. I'll share resources and helpful tools to create an opportunity for you to make conscious and informed choices throughout aging, illness, dying and ultimately your transition.
Here is my why....
I sincerely believe that the biggest gift we can give our loved ones is to have our affairs in order - to share a conversation with them about what we want and ask for them to gift us with honouring our choices when we are transitioning. I believe that the world has medicalized dying and that people are not comfortable celebrating our transition out of this world in the same way that we celebrate our arrival. I sincerely want people to know that they can choose a death that is in alignment with the way they have lived their life. They just need to know that there are options AND that legal and medical documents must be in place if you want to do things differently then conventional or typically done.
This is my mission...
To move the death positive movement forward and shift our culture's idea of what health and dying look like. The fulfillment of this mission can ensure that the legacy you leave behind is beautifully aligned with your life.
Your next step...
Book a call with me. This is a no pressure, let's see if we are a good fit in a conversation over zoom. I work with individuals, families and communities. You get to decide what that first call looks like.
THERE ARE THREE MAIN AREAS OF FOCUS
IN THE WORK I DO WITH OTHERS:
As an Advocate for you, your loved ones and/or family members
As an Educator
As a Planner
INDIVIDUAL (&/OR FAMILY)
PRICED BY TIME & DESIRED GOALS DETERMINED ON INITIAL CONSULTATION
When you and/or your loved ones need facilitation, education, or assistance in understanding choices available, creating a plan, collating resources and assistance in communicating your desires during illness management and end of life transition.
CUSTOM PACKAGES AVAILABLE.
MONTHLY COMMUNITY CALL:
TALKING AGING, ILLNESS, DYING & DEATH
ENGAGED CONVERSATIONS IN A COMMUNITY SETTING
A one hour facilitated Zoom call where we can talk about aging, living and dying consciously. This is an opportunity to ask questions, to listen, to be heard and to receive support of others.
The purpose of these calls are in a community sharing environment with facilitation by Tamara and special guests & content experts.
END OF LIFE WORKSHOP: PUTTING PLANS INTO PLACE
SIGN UP IS OPEN
FOR THE NEXT COHORT!!
Gain clarity, become educated and increase your understanding of what your end of life could look like? Plan for your end .
Engage in conversations to foster agency in your decision making, to assist you in making informed choices AND to put your affairs in order legally and medically. No mess is left behind for those you love AND you have the peace of mind knowing that your loved ones will know what to do....& can focus on what matters most to them ... YOU!
WHAT PEOPLE SAY
"For those of us who planned the birth of our babies in a way that was poignantly opposed to mainstream path of bringing a new soul into this world... the idea of end of life architecture is at the same time genius, and oddly familiar. To give birth without drugs, interventions and at home without preparation is downright scary. Just as it wouldn't be wise to embark on the journey of giving birth unprepared, why would we approach our end of life process uneducated and ill-informed?
Just as our bodies prepare the perfect cocktail of chemicals to facilitate the birthing process if left without intervention... in death our bodies have mechanisms in place to naturally move through the process. We spend our lives in bodies that survive due to inbuilt intelligence of homeostasis - it makes complete sense that we exit this physical world in a sea of complex chemistry that is perfectly formulated - if we don't mess with it.